Over medium-high heat melt the butter in a saucepan,You can use as little or as much butter as you like, but I don’t recommend eliminating it altogether because the oats won’t “fry” nicely Once the butter has melted, add 1 cup of uncooked oats
Stir oats, coating with butter, and “fry” for approximately three minutes.This step is the most important. Watch the oats closely and stir frequently. You don’t want the oats to burn, but rather have a nice golden brown hue. You’ll know they’re just right because they will be fragrant. Once the oats are golden brown, add 3 cups of water.I always add a splash more because I like my oatmeal a little thinner You can also substitute cow’s milk, almond milk, coconut milk, etc. if you want creamier oatmeal, but it will affect the taste and consistency. Add a pinch of sea salt and stir.
Bring the water + oats to a boil and then cover with a lid
Turn off the stove and go to bed, leaving the pot covered overnight.